tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2400651792180366460.post496121976587632492..comments2024-03-29T00:20:28.790-07:00Comments on Love, Light, Laughter and Chocolate - One Mom's Journey: Serendipity? Destiny? Choice? Love...Kimberlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02168884410153801082noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2400651792180366460.post-80850828414957753302013-01-09T01:12:49.533-08:002013-01-09T01:12:49.533-08:00Did your relationship "go down" after yo...Did your relationship "go down" after you lost your daughter? My husband and I lost our son in 2006 and there were times we would try and find blame in each other. . etc. . . Or was it already rocky before that? Do you two both "cope" with her death seperatly? You don't have to answer these things if you don't want to. I am always curious how other couples "handle" the grief of losing a child. I know on the days leading up to the day we lost our son sometimes I just fall into my husbands arms and I take comfort in the fact that I don't have to say anything and he just knows, as he is feeling the same pain! I appreciate your blog. My friend recently lost her daughter and it has been the first time I don't know what to say to her! IDK what is going on with me! I have been there and I should have something to offer and I am blank! I am afraid I will be like some of the idiots that came around us and said stupid things when we lost our son. I know saying nothing is not good either! So, I have directed her to your blog and a few other resources until I am given the words and timing to speak! Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13776043862119290630noreply@blogger.com